Can’t sleep? 8 Tips to Stop Tossing and Turning in your Bed

by Gio

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During the past year, I started having trouble falling asleep. Even if I feel tired and sleepy all day, as soon as I get in my bed I keep tossing and turning for hours before sleep finally comes, followed way to soon, by the sound of my alarm clock telling me that it’s already morning and time to wake up. That’s so frustrating!

And then, for the rest of the day, I feel cranky, exhausted and find it hard to concentrate on the simplest things. Not only that, but I also have horrible dark circles and bags under my eyes and I’m depriving my body of the time it needs to regenerate itself. So, I’ve been trying lots of things to solve the problem and here are the ones that worked for me. I hope they can help you too. ๐Ÿ™‚

1. Comfortable bed and clothes

To get a good night’s sleep, it’s very important that your bed is clean and comfortable. The mattress needs to be firm to provide support but not too firm that your body aches when you wake up. Also, it needs to be large enough for you to stretch comfortably. The clothes you’re wearing are important too. I like to wear warm, comfy and non-restrictive clothes when I sleep, otherwise they’ll just bother me and prevent me from falling asleep.

2. Create a peaceful and dark environment

Your bedroom needs to be comfortable too. I sleep better when my room is pitch black so I turn off any lights that could be in the room. Wearing a sleeping mask helps too. I also can’t sleep if I hear any noises but avoiding them, especially the external ones, isn’t always possible. If they bother you, try to block them out with earplugs. In addition, experiment with different room temperatures until you find the ideal one for you.

3. Use the bed for sleeping only

The bed is a place to sleep (and have sex ๐Ÿ˜‰ ), not to watch tv, eat or use your laptop. If your head associates the bed with the idea of sleeping, it will be easier for the body to wind down, relax and fall asleep.

4. Don’t nap during the day

Some days, especially if I didn’t sleep too well at night, I feel really tired and sleepy and all I wanna do is have a lie down and take a nap in the afternoon. When this happens I try to do something that stimulates me to stay awake like exercising or house works. That’s because if I gave in and slept for a while, then when the night comes and it’s time to go to sleep, I will just lie in bed for hours trying to fall asleep in vain because my body’s not tired enough.

5. Develop a relaxing routine before bedtime

Developing a relaxing routine about an hour before going to bed helps you relax and get ready for bed. Avoid stressing activities or obsessing about checking your emails every few minutes, but do something relaxing like reading a light book, listening to soothing music, knitting or drinking some milk with honey for instance. If you are really stressed or worried about something, then write all your concerns and problems down on a piece of paper. This gives my mind a rest so when I finally go to bed I don’t keep thinking about my worries but sleep peacefully instead.

6. Exercise during the day, not at night

I find that if I work out during the day or simply go for a walk or ride a bike, when the night comes I’m more tired than usual and falling asleep is easier. However, you should never exercise about 3 hours before going to bed because it stimulates the body, raising its heart rate and temperature, which will leave you tossing and turning in your bed instead than getting a good night’s sleep.

7. Go to bed always at the same hour

Going to sleep and waking up at the same hour every day tells the body when it’s time to sleep and when it’s time to wake up. Try to go to bed at an hour when your body is naturally tired, not too soon or you’ll still have problems trying to fall asleep. Also, try not to break this rule during the weekends. I know that’s hard and, on Saturday nights, I always tend to go to bed later than usual which is something I always regret the next day cos I end up sleeping until late in the morning and when I wake up I don’t feel recharged at all. And then, on Sunday night I have trouble falling asleep cos my body’s not tired enough.

8. Contact a doctor

If you have tried all the things above but to no avail, then it’s time to consult a doctor. You could have a sleeping disorder and a specialist can determine what causes it and what you can do to solve the problem.

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Rebecca March 27, 2010 - 2:28 pm

Ugh, I used to have such a hard time sleeping! I still go through phases where I do, but for the most part it’s gotten a lot better. I think the excersize one is really important – my school’s P.E. class doesn’t really involve a lot of movement (:P) and when I finally got my butt in hear and signed up for a gym membership, I slept so much better!
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Tavia March 28, 2010 - 7:44 am

I was in the same situation a few years back when I was working night shifts. I can sleep only if it’s complete darkness in the room and silence too. In those times my neighbors were renovating their flat and it took them 6 months. I was going to work even after 3-4 hours of sleep and when I came home there it was again the sound of the power drill. I don’t know why, but here from spring until winter everybody starts making some modification to their place and they are going on for months on a row. Goodbye sleep!
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beautifulwithbrains March 28, 2010 - 9:02 pm

Rebecca, I’m glad you can sleep much better now and that going to the gym helped. I also think exercise is important to sleep well, especially if like me you’re lazy and spend most of your time sitting down. Working out tires you out so that falling sleeping is easier and it makes you feel healthier too. ๐Ÿ™‚

All Women Stalker March 29, 2010 - 12:51 am

I need to focus on number 5. I feel that sometimes, I do stressful things right before bed and they sure affect my sleep. They even make me scared of NOT waking up! Tsk tsk. Great tips ๐Ÿ™‚

beetrice March 29, 2010 - 9:05 am

part of #1 and #7 is just not possible for me – when you’re living in a rented room, the bed’s just crap to say the least…and with my working hours, sleeping at the same time everyday would be nothing short of a miracle… ๐Ÿ˜€
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Marina(Makeup4All) March 29, 2010 - 12:38 pm

The reason why I can’t sleep usually is the fact that I start thinking about EVERYTHING when I finally go to bed ๐Ÿ™
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beautifulwithbrains March 29, 2010 - 6:15 pm

Tavia, that’s awful! Those flat renovations go on for months here too. The family who lives above my flat renovated their house and it took them more than a year! But at least I could sleep at night, I don’t know how you survived, working night shifts and all. But kudos to you girl and I’m glad you can finally sleep peacefully. ๐Ÿ™‚

beautifulwithbrains March 29, 2010 - 6:18 pm

All Women Stalker, I feel like that when I’m watching a scary movie lol. I just can’t get to sleep if I do. I hope you can find something relaxing to do. I like to read and it helps a lot ๐Ÿ™‚

beautifulwithbrains March 29, 2010 - 6:22 pm

Beetrice, I think going to bed always at the same hour is a very difficult thing to do, especially nowadays we all seem to live very hectic lives. I struggle with that too. It’s a shame really cos developing such a routine is beneficial for the body.

beautifulwithbrains March 29, 2010 - 6:27 pm

Marina, I used to be like that too. But I find that, if I write everything down just before going to bed, it helps me relax and fall asleep. I hope that’ll work for you too. ๐Ÿ™‚

And thanks for your recommendation. I heard good things about that products, maybe it’s time I check it out. ๐Ÿ™‚

ashley March 2, 2011 - 7:35 am

my husband has gone almost two years with out sleeping, he only falls asleep for 4 or 3 hours we have tried it all from doctors too teas too routins nd nothing has helped wat do u recomind plz help we will really thank u for your advice plz help!!!!

beautifulwithbrains March 2, 2011 - 4:00 pm

Ashley, I’m sorry but I don’t know what to suggest since I don’t your husband and what the cause of him not being able to sleep is. If the tips mentioned above don’t help, then he may have some medical condition and so you should consult a doctor. I know you already did that but I don’t know what else to suggest. I’m sorry I couldn’t be of more help.

tracey April 26, 2011 - 6:44 pm

I’ve been tossing and turning a lot while I sleep lately and these are great tips, thanks!

beautifulwithbrains April 26, 2011 - 7:47 pm

Tracey, I’m sorry to hear you have sleeping problems at the moment but I hope these tips will help you.

Kim July 28, 2011 - 1:57 am

i have no problem falling asleep but i wake up almost every night in the middle of the night. I also toss and turn. What should i do?

beautifulwithbrains July 28, 2011 - 6:36 pm

Kim, I’m sorry to hear that. I’m not sure how to help without knowing why you wake up in the middle of the night. Are you stressed or something? Maybe you should see a doctor..

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